You are pastor. ("Exercising pastoral supervision of the people committed to your care, ordering the life of the congregation, counseling the troubled in spirit...")
The word 'pastor' can mean 'shepherd,' one who watches over the flock, the congregation. A shepherd learns to recognize cries for help (even when they sound like anger); a shepherd offers gentle redirection for a lamb going astray; a shepherd organizes life within the sheepfold.
- Underestimate the tools of your trade: The Word, prayer, and the sacraments. These are not second best. Few physicians, counselors, or gurus offer these life-giving things.
- Think of the pastor's office as a chance for you to do your own thing. The ordered life of the church includes disciplined accountability. In the United Methodist Church, this includes the authroity of The Book of Discipline.
- Remember the difference between whom you serve and for whom you work. You serve a congregation, but you work for God.
- Keep in mind the basics. People need what pastors provide - a word from God, prayers, dependable sacramental promises, and a church relationship that is lived out 'decently and in [good] order.' (1 Corinthians 14:40).
Recently we had a parishioner die. She spent a long time in the hospital and the family called me and told me that she was given about 24-48 hours to live. I and my wife were on a date that night and on our way home we both stopped by. I was familiar with a room like that, my wife was not. She could feel the energy in the room (she is really attune to such things) and said it was a hard place to be. I told her this is one of the reasons I feel it is a privileged to be a minister. It is a privileged because I am invited into that room, into that private family moment. Prayer with family at the bedside of a dying loved one is holy ground.
We are pastors...if we start to take those moments for granted or leave them neglected, we are the Pastor we swore we would never be.